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Be the Change
BY D.J. VANAS
Gandhi said, “Be the change you want
to see in the world.” He didn’t say hope for change, wish for change
or wait for change. He said to be the change. Gandhi walked his
talk as he influenced millions worldwide by showing the power of
unity, discipline and peaceful protest in freeing his people.
Leading
others to change by being the change is the singular key to improving
success and education across Indian Country. It doesn’t mean we
won’t make mistakes or stumble. It does mean we will continue to
fight to raise the conditions and expectations of our people and
we won’t quit. It does mean we’ll actively participate in positive
change and not hope, wish or wait for change. It means we’ll commit
to lead by example and inspire others to not look at our situation
as it is, but as it could be. After all, visions are regarded as
powerful and sacred in our culture because they are what really
move people to change and improve.
Medical studies explored what
it takes to truly create changes in attitudes and actions. When
working with cases of very unhealthy people, they said “If you
continue to live like this, you’ll die in two years.” Do you think
this was effective in changing people? A handful, motivated by
fear, made temporary changes but most made none. A much better
result came when the doctors said, “If you change the way you live,
imagine how you’d feel, how you’d look, what kind of example you’d
be setting for your kids.” Do you think this approach worked? You
bet it did! It took sharing a vision of what success looks like,
feels like and tastes like. This is the key to change.
Across Indian
Country we know that we’ve got problems on par with the scenario
above—unhealthy situations including the meth epidemic, a crisis
highschool dropout level, violence, abuse and hopelessness infecting
our communities. What will it take to change it? Surely not focusing
our time and energy on criticism, highlighting the flaws or getting
bogged down in the negative—we’ve done that in the past and it
doesn’t work. What will create a change in the minds and hearts
of our people is to inspire a new vision of what we could truly
be and achieve as a people! I believe, like those at the American
Indian Science & Engineering Society (AISES), a key to opening
the door to change is through the power of education.
I also believe
we can play a vital role in creating this positive change by actively
sharing our stories with others—in person, in print and online.
By sharing our successes, our failures, the wisdom gained through
struggles, the fears overcome and the thrill of accomplishing big
goals. This is not to inspire and impress others with what we’ve
done, but to inspire and impress upon others what they could do
for themselves, their families and their tribal communities! Our
oral traditions that taught lessons, values and virtues worked
the same way—they inspired others to change, to live right and
to succeed—by sharing stories. We can lead by example and play
a critical role in supplying what is often in short supply across
our communities—hope. We can make things better—and it can
start with us.
D.J. Eagle Bear Vanas, Odawa, is an internationally
acclaimed motivational storyteller, success coach and the author
of the celebrated book, The Tiny Warrior: A Path to Personal Discovery & Achievement
and audio CD series The Warrior Within. Vanas is an AISES Sequoyah
Fellow. He can be reached at (719) 282-7747 or at www.nativediscovery.com. |